How to please a woman doesn’t have to be mysterious, although it does seem much easier to for guys to get turned on than it does for women! However, there are some safe bets as to what will turn your lady on. In this post we’ll cover six different ways to get a woman all hot and bothered and thereby increase her (and your) enjoyment in the bedroom.
1. Be Passionate
Our first tip is to make your lady feel desired by being passionate: you want to make your woman feel like she’s unbelievably sexy. Of course, you can contribute to this by paying close attention to her and her needs (within reason – you don’t want to be overbearing) outside of the bedroom as well as inside. Within the bedroom you can show her how much you want her by, for instance, staring at her seductively, marveling at her body. Kiss her ravenously, as if you’re completely overwhelmed by your passion for her.
2. Stretch out Foreplay As Long as Possible
One way to get a woman in the mood for sex, as well as ensure she gets the most out of it as possible, is to slowly build up to the act itself. You can gently touch her in the places she likes to be touched, or even on the peripheries of these areas, getting closer and closer to the center with each touch. You want to get her to to highest point of sexual tension, to where she’d do anything to get release, so that the final release is the stuff of dreams. Once actual intercourse has begun, don’t pressure her to orgasm by asking her if she has yet – this is the easiest way to kill her enjoyment.
3. Communication is Key
It’s an oft-stated claim that women are more “emotional” than men, and this is generally true in that they rely more on feeling. When it comes to the bedroom this is no different: they want you to tell them how much you appreciate them, and how much you enjoy being with them sexually. One way to do this is to be vocal, for instance moaning in pleasure or gently whispering her name.
4. Vary Things Up
Women enjoy bringing creativity to the bedroom and – let’s be honest – doing the same thing over and over again can quickly grow stale. Don’t be afraid to tell your girlfriend or wife about some of your special fantasies. You can try different positions, or even try some kinkier things that are more psychological and less physical. Tying into point 3, you should ask her her fantasies and what specific things turn her on.
5. Talk Dirty to Her
It follows from some of the points above that many women enjoy dirty talk. Don’t be afraid to tell them you’ve been fantasizing about seeing them naked the whole day, or even send suggestive (or explicit) texts throughout the day. This makes them feel appreciated and builds up their excitement for what may come later.
6. Learn More About Female Anatomy
Now we get down to the nitty-gritty: you should learn a bit about the female anatomy, specifically the pleasure centers of the vagina. You should absolutely be willing to use your fingers or tongue, especially if you expect your woman to do the same thing for you! In many cases, delicate stimulation with the fingers or tongue can be much more enjoyable to women than penetration. The clitoris in particular should be paid attention to. You can start off slowly and get more and more aggressive as time goes on.
Hopefully, this post has provided you with some helpful information about how to please your woman. These tips are sure to bring vital sexual energy to your relationship, and increase both of your love and desire for each other. Enjoy!
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